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This is my first "event". Im shy but really looking forward to getting to possibly scene.
Im a Little and will probably find my way to the Littles area off and on.
Ive only ever had 1 spanking partner and have tried a few implements. I like thuddy, not super stingy. Belts are a fav, and paddles too. Looking forward to maybe trying a cane.
Lol otherwise I have no idea what im doing and will be wandering and watching. I only bottom and have zero toppy tendancies. Also very shy about my weight.
As I get comfortable i can be a little sassy.
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I am not new to the community generally and to That Thing We Do. I've been very actively engaged for the last 10 years or so. But last year was the first time I attended SpankoCon. The fact I am flying in for it again this year really tells you what I think of it. I really enjoyed it last year and I am confident you should have a great time with the mixture of classes, demostrations, and evening play.
Miss Chris is very highly respected in the community for her knowledge, her empathy, and her formidable technical skills; and - unless she's scolding you or in role play mode - she makes it fun. In choosing this to be your first such event you could not do better. The fact this is a much smaller event than the big parties may also help you to be less shy. And you'll find that we are all friendly and welcoming.
As to being shy about weight, one of the wonderful aspects of our community is how everyone is accepted and we don't judge such things. We pride ourselves on being non-judgmental. The pre-eminent golden rule for us is nothing to do with appearance: it is about consent, which is the one absolute requirement that is fundamental to what we do.
I look forward to meeting you and I am sure you will be pleased you took the nervous first step of signing up for this.
Best
Nemo